Ep. 12 - How Porn Is Fueling Child-on-Child Sexual Assault | Benjamin Nolot & Nurse Heidi Olson
Jun 21, 2023
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Benjamin Nolot, CEO of Exodus Cry, and Nurse Heidi Olson discuss the alarming rise of child-on-child sexual assault fueled by underage exposure to porn. They share heartbreaking stories, highlight the need for awareness and action, and emphasize the importance of self-care and therapy for those working with victims. The speakers explore healthcare's role in addressing pornography-related issues, the impact on families, and the need for research and training to protect children from the devastating effects of pornography.
Exposure to pornography increases the likelihood of children acting out harmful sexual behaviors and engaging in sexual violence.
Parents and caregivers should create a safe and supportive space for children to disclose sexual abuse and take immediate action to protect them.
Therapy can help mitigate the long-lasting effects of childhood sexual abuse and reduce recidivism rates in children with problematic sexual behavior.
Deep dives
The prevalence of childhood exposure to pornography and its impact on children
Pornography has become increasingly accessible to children, with studies showing that about 73% of kids have seen porn by the age of 17. Exposure to pornography has been linked to harmful sexual behaviors and increased sexual violence among children. Research indicates that the more children watch pornography, the more likely they are to act it out. This trend is disturbingly prevalent, with cases of children sexually assaulting other children on the rise. The influence of pornography on children's behavior is clear, as they replicate what they see, resulting in traumatizing and violent acts.
The importance of validating and supporting child victims of sexual abuse
When a child discloses sexual abuse, it is crucial for parents and caregivers to believe and validate them. Creating a safe space for the child to share their experiences can help them feel supported and understood. It is also important to take immediate action to protect the child and remove them from the presence of the perpetrator. Seeking help from professionals, such as counselors or child advocacy centers, can provide guidance on legal actions, safety plans, and therapeutic interventions for both the victim and the family.
Addressing the issue of childhood sexual abuse and the role of therapy
Childhood sexual abuse is a deeply troubling issue that requires intervention and support. While the consequences of such abuse can be long-lasting, therapy can help mitigate its effects. There are therapies specifically designed to address problematic sexual behavior in children and adolescents, ultimately reducing recidivism rates. It is important to differentiate between child victims and adult offenders, as children often possess the capacity for rehabilitation and positive change when provided with appropriate therapeutic assistance and guidance.
The widespread distribution and normalization of pornography in society
The availability and normalization of pornography pose a significant threat to individuals, families, and society at large. Current statistics suggest that a significant portion of sexual assaults is committed by juveniles themselves, with a potential connection to exposure to pornography. The detrimental effects of pornography on individuals' sexual attitudes and behaviors are well-documented, necessitating a reevaluation of its place in our culture. Increased awareness, regulation, and discussions surrounding the pervasive influence of pornography are vital to protecting children and fostering healthier attitudes towards sex and relationships.
Recommendations for parents in dealing with pornography exposure and sexual abuse
Parents must recognize that the likelihood of their child being exposed to pornography is high in today's digital age. Setting strict device parameters and implementing safeguards can help mitigate their exposure. In the event of a child disclosing sexual abuse, parents must not dismiss or invalidate their claims. Optimally, immediate actions should be taken to ensure the child's safety, even if legal recourse is not always attainable. Resources, such as child advocacy centers, should be consulted for comprehensive support and guidance throughout the process.
This week on the Exodus Cry Podcast, Exodus Cry CEO Benjamin Nolot sits down with Heidi Olson, a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner with years of experience treating child victims of sexual assault. She shares heartbreaking stories of young patients who have been brutally assaulted, most often by other kids.
Heidi discusses the increase in child-on-child sexual assault not only in her hospital but across the United States. Her explanation? Underage exposure to porn is a major contributing factor since children are being fed violent sexual content as their sex education.
Exodus Cry is a leading global anti-trafficking nonprofit organization focused on ending widespread sex trafficking and commercial sexual exploitation, exposing this injustice for millions worldwide, and helping its victims to rebuild their lives.
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