#131 - The Bad Daughter Myth: She Spent 29 Years Believing She Was The Problem

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In this episode I sit down with Lacey to explore what happens when the family you come from convinces you that you’re the problem. We follow her journey from an identity shaped by abandonment and survival to the woman she’s consciously becoming.

Lacey opens up about growing up without present parents, the memories she buried, and how ceremonies brought the truth back through her body. She shares why speaking feels dangerous after a childhood of punishment, how her voice can both cut and heal, and why the “nuclear family” never felt real to her.

We talk about choosing narcissistic partners, using people pleasing to stay safe, and how saying no became her most spiritual act. She breaks down feminine rage, losing everything, and rebuilding herself as a single mother with nothing but faith and boundaries.

If you’ve ever felt like the villain in your own family or worked to reclaim your voice after trauma, this episode will stay with you. It’s a conversation about identity, courage, and what happens when a woman stops defending herself and starts living her truth.

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