rich & REGULAR with Kiersten and Julien Saunders Ep 193: How we say no when people ask for money
Dec 23, 2024
Discover the power of saying 'no' and protect your financial sanity. The hosts share personal stories about awkward money requests from friends, revealing the emotional toll of holiday giving. They tackle survivor's guilt and how a lifetime of people-pleasing can breed resentment. Essential tactics for gracefully declining financial asks are discussed, alongside the concept that letting others solve their own problems might be the best help. This conversation is perfect for those struggling to balance generosity with personal boundaries.
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A friend's request
- Julien shares a story about a college friend asking for money due to health issues.
- He felt conflicted due to past negative experiences with this friend.
Saying No to Acquaintances
- Saying no to weak social ties can be challenging due to politeness and survivor's guilt.
- Practice quick and polite refusals for small requests to avoid awkwardness.
Question the Ask
- When someone asks for money, consider if they're choosing the easiest route.
- Ask clarifying questions and remove yourself if they deny your right to inquire.