Red Medicine

Tell Me About Your Mother... w/ Hannah Zeavin and Helen Charman

May 14, 2025
Hannah Zeavin, an Assistant Professor at UC Berkeley and cofounder of The Psychosocial Foundation, teams up with Helen Charman, a Cambridge Fellow and accomplished writer. They delve into the intersection of motherhood, media, and technology throughout the 20th century. Their conversation reveals how media shapes societal expectations of mothers and explores the anxieties tied to modern parenting. They also critique historical narratives and the influence of iconic TV shows, highlighting the evolving dynamics of maternal roles and the impact of technological advancements.
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INSIGHT

The Myth of the Nuclear Mother

  • The idealized nuclear family with a mother doing all reproductive labor alone is a fantasy with harmful persistence.
  • Technology and media play complex roles in supporting mothering labor and passing on societal pathologies from mothers to media.
ANECDOTE

Buffy as Secret Rebellion

  • Helen Charman secretly watched Buffy despite her mother's disapproval rooted in Christian morality.
  • The show became a site of forbidden exploration and a formative experience about loss and trauma for her.
INSIGHT

Media as Surrogate Caregiver

  • Families negotiate competing pressures to keep children safe via media while fearing its corruptive influence.
  • Media acts as a mediated caretaker when mothers are absent or multitasking under societal judgment.
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