Focus on the Family with Jim Daly

Teach Your Child How to Have Meaningful Conversations

Sep 22, 2025
Heather Holleman, an associate teaching professor and author of The Six Conversations, joins her husband, Ashley, to explore the importance of meaningful communication in nurturing relationships. They discuss rising loneliness among students and offer strategies to combat it with curiosity and care. Practical tools like the Four Ls, conversation training, and spark questions help parents teach kids to connect better. They also delve into using technology thoughtfully and fostering spiritual discussions—a must-listen for parents looking to enhance emotional intelligence in their children.
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INSIGHT

Students Are Searching For Meaning

  • College students recognize their loneliness and are actively searching for meaning.
  • Many return to church and ask sincere spiritual questions, signalling opportunity for real connection.
ADVICE

Train Four Mindsets For Loving Connection

  • Teach children four mindsets: be curious, believe the best, express concern, and share your life.
  • Prioritize learning others' stories instead of trying to win arguments.
ADVICE

Use Strong, Specific Questions

  • Ask good, specific questions and teach kids to be fascinated by people.
  • Teach children to listen for
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