

The power we have to create the world of our choosing
10 snips Oct 11, 2020
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Ask Why Before Punishing
- Always ask what you would like the person to do differently and why when they behave in a way you dislike.
- This helps avoid punishment and leads to true understanding rather than forcing compliance.
Use Giraffe Ears to Listen
- Use giraffe ears to listen for feelings and needs behind words, hearing no criticism or blame.
- This allows connection with the vitality in every person, transforming conflict into compassionate understanding.
Giraffe Ears in Refugee Camp
- Marshall Rosenberg shares an experience in a Middle Eastern refugee camp where he was accused harshly but used giraffe ears to connect with feelings behind words.
- This led to understanding and invitations to dinner, showcasing the power of nonviolent communication even in extreme hostility.