Become New with John Ortberg

How Can I Make Peace with Someone Who Never Wants to See Me Again? (2021) JOHN, I HAVE A QUESTION

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Jun 5, 2025
This discussion tackles the challenging dynamics of reconciling with someone who doesn't want to connect. It highlights the emotional journey of parents during pivotal life moments, reflecting on the complexities of love and loss. The speakers share insights on the reality that not all relationships can be healed but emphasize the importance of love and mutual effort. They also explore the healing power of prayer and divine support, providing encouragement for those navigating the pain of broken connections.
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INSIGHT

Loving Without Intimacy

  • Making peace with someone who wants no contact means accepting limited control over the relationship outcome.
  • Loving and willing good for them is possible without intimacy.
INSIGHT

Pain Shapes Faith Understanding

  • Hardship in relationships deepens and shapes our understanding of God.
  • We become theologians as we wrestle with faith during suffering.
ADVICE

Name Hurt, Pray for Good

  • Name and acknowledge your hurt feelings honestly as part of healing.
  • Pray for the other person's good, continuing to love regardless of reconciliation.
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