How To Talk To Girls Podcast Destroy The Nice Guy & Become The “Bad Boy”
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Jun 9, 2025 Join dating coach Carlos Zuma, who has been empowering men since 2002, as he helps listeners shed their 'nice guy' image. He shares how being too nice can kill attraction and offers insights on building a confident, masculine persona without being a jerk. The conversation explores the complexities of dating dynamics, the true nature of confidence, and the importance of open communication. Zuma also critiques media portrayals of masculinity and advocates for a blend of nice and bad boy traits to create an authentic and appealing self.
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Confidence Through Shedding Fear
- Confidence emerges from shedding insecurities and fears, not from forcing changes on yourself.
- Becoming attractive means uncovering your genuine self, often revealing a natural 'bad boy' edge.
Balance Nice Guy and Bad Boy
- Men often programmed to be nice to make women happy but lacking confidence and masculinity.
- Balance is key to avoid being overly nice or a jerk and attract women authentically.
Certainty Attracts Both Sexes
- The bad boy energy conveys certainty, grounding, and stability which attract others.
- Women and men alike admire those who display confidence and assurance.
