Weight For It Desired yet Unwanted
Oct 17, 2024
In this engaging conversation, Carmen Rene Smith, a body positivity advocate and influencer known for her work documenting life with lymphedema and lipedema, shares her mission of empowering women to love their bodies. Carmen dives into the complexities of desirability in dating, discussing how she navigates unwanted attention and fetishization. She highlights the daily challenges of living with chronic conditions while reframing exercise as a celebration of strength. Their candid talk sheds light on the emotional intricacies of body image and the importance of setting boundaries in the digital space.
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Started Instagram To Advocate And Build Confidence
- Carmen Renee Smith started EatTheCakeToo to boost confidence and raise awareness of lymphedema and lipedema.
- Early attention brought many men who sexualized her, which wasn't the audience she intended.
Desire Versus Being Fully Wanted
- Social media desire doesn't equal being wanted or included in long-term relationship imaginaries.
- Carmen experiences intense sexualization without assurances of commitment or respect.
Guarding Heart And Body When Dating
- Carmen describes being over-sexualized online, often fetishized by men who won't bring her home.
- She keeps her guard up when dating to avoid confusing fetishization with genuine connection.