Axis Conversations Ask Axis: "How do I talk to my adult son about porn and screen addiction?"
Sep 30, 2025
The hosts dive into a heartfelt discussion about a 21-year-old's struggle with screen addiction and how parents can help. They emphasize understanding porn as a symptom of deeper emotional needs rather than just a bad habit. Listeners learn the importance of offering a positive vision for the future while avoiding micromanagement. Strategies like group recovery and digital detoxes are suggested. The importance of compassion and open communication is also highlighted, reinforcing that change comes from within.
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Porn As A Symptom Not The Root
- Porn often functions as a perceived solution to unmet emotional needs rather than being the root problem.
- Naming the painful emotion under the behavior is a key step toward real healing.
Motivate By Offering A Vision
- Offer a positive vision for change instead of only restricting behavior to shift motivation.
- Teach longing for a better future to replace micromanagement of actions.
Join A Structured Recovery Program
- When your son is ready, consider joining a structured peer group like Pure Desire and using the Seven Pillars curriculum.
- These programs help uncover hidden wounds and create a practical path toward healing.