

24. How to be Gentle in a World of Outrage | John Ortberg
12 snips Jul 17, 2025
In a world filled with outrage and revenge, the discussion reveals how future grievances can trigger intense feelings of injustice. The podcast explores the addiction-like qualities of these responses and how Jesus’s example of gentleness offers an alternative path. It emphasizes dispensing grace rather than judgment, showcasing the power of compassion in our daily interactions. Ultimately, it advocates for a loving approach that breaks the cycle of rage and fosters a more understanding society.
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Jesus as the Gentle King
- Jesus entered Jerusalem gently on a donkey, symbolizing a humble, non-violent king.
- Gentleness means refusing to use power to harm, not avoiding conflict or pain.
Ultra Crepidarian Outrage
- Many people today express opinions beyond their expertise, fueling online outrage.
- This 'ultra crepidarian' tendency worsens performative judgment and social conflict.
The Addiction of Revenge
- Revenge operates like an addiction in the brain via a cycle starting from grievance.
- Indulging anger releases dopamine and drives harmful acts or withdrawal, breaking love's power.