This week, lover of all that is good and messy, Brandon Kyle Goodman climbed in bed! They taught me what goes in to an official sex party, how they balance life with both a husband and a boyfriend, and how they found their way back to themselves. We also had a very honest and meaningful conversation about intention and pronouns, and Brandon shared some brilliant advice about orgasms and the delicate art of telling your partner you can’t sext them back while you’re at work.

Listen to Brandon's podcast Tell Me Something Messy, available now from iHeartMedia’s Outspoken Podcast Network !

And read their incredible book You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

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