Truth 2x2 Cult Kids Examining 2x2 Culture with Kyle Hanks
Jul 14, 2025
Kyle Hanks, host of Cowtipper Vern and a moderator of the ex 2x2 Facebook group, dives deep into the complexity of 2x2 culture. He examines the impact of language and storytelling on personal journeys of deconstruction and recovery from high-control communities. Kyle also discusses the emotional toll of leaving such tightly-knit environments, the importance of shared experiences for validation, and the need for supportive spaces in processing trauma. His insights challenge listeners to reflect on the nuances of joy, faith, and resilience in their own lives.
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Kyle's Leaving Journey Began
- Kyle and his wife Kari grew up strictly following 2x2 beliefs and behaviors with no exploration of other beliefs.
- The disruption of COVID allowed them to critically examine their faith and ultimately led to their leaving the group.
Faith Crisis Tested Their Marriage
- Kyle and Kari went through a rocky period during belief changes but processed it together.
- They disappeared from meetings for 1.5 years with almost no outreach from their former community.
Silent Treatment is Social Control
- 2x2 culture practices a silent treatment instead of explicit shunning or excommunication.
- This social exclusion is powerful and often unacknowledged, causing deep isolation.