The Relational Podcast

Why belonging matters in a rapidly complex world with Fabian Pfortmüller

Aug 12, 2025
Fabian Pfortmüller, a partner at Together Institute and co-creator of the Wasan Network, dives into the transformative power of relationships. He shares his journey from Switzerland to Amsterdam, emphasizing the importance of trust and care in community building. The discussion highlights the emotional impact of belonging and how deep connections can combat loneliness. They also explore the need for relational leadership in today's complex world, advocating for supportive networks that nurture change and resilience.
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From Childhood Hospitality To Sandbox

  • Fabian describes growing up with hospitality at home and feeling lonely in high school, which shaped his calling to bring people together.
  • He co-founded Sandbox in 2007 and learned how long-term, value-driven communities create resilience and life-changing relationships.
INSIGHT

Loneliness Denies Our Embeddedness

  • Fabian links belonging to a sense of worthiness and being embedded in life’s web, and sees loneliness as denying surrounding intimacy.
  • He uses David Whyte's lines to show how acting as if alone deepens suffering and disconnect.
INSIGHT

The Story We Tell Shapes Systems

  • Fabian argues our cultural story of separation drives collapse while a relational story supports regenerative living.
  • Shifting narratives from separation to interconnectedness enables collective thriving and ecological health.
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