Married Game Podcast Your Marriage Isn’t Broken — You’re Lying to Yourself
Jan 9, 2026
This discussion uncovers the lies men often tell themselves in marriage, like 'I'm doing everything I can' and 'I don't want to push her away.' It highlights how avoiding conflict can kill attraction faster than any argument. The hosts share personal stories that reveal leadership gaps and the importance of emotional presence. They emphasize that true connection requires ownership and clarity, challenging listeners to confront comfort zones for deeper intimacy. Expect powerful insights that challenge complacency in relationships.
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Death Sparked Unconditional Self-Love
- Keith shares his father's peaceful passing on Christmas and how it triggered acceptance and deeper self-love.
- He says losing parental unconditional love made him realize he can provide that love to himself.
Effort Isn’t The Same As Attraction
- Men often tell themselves "I'm doing everything I can" to avoid responsibility and stop seeking new skills.
- Keith says the real issue is avoiding behaviors that actually create attraction, not effort alone.
Fear Of Disapproval Hides Real Wants
- Fear of pushing her away often masks a deeper fear of disapproval and staying small.
- Jesse and Keith say men hide wants to avoid rejection instead of honestly asking for needs.