
 BJJ Mental Models
 BJJ Mental Models Ep. 291: Difficult Coaching Conversations, feat. Ben Van Doren
 Jul 1, 2024 
 Ben Van Doren, a Lucas Lepri black belt and head instructor at Deep Blue Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, discusses navigating difficult coaching conversations in the Jiu Jitsu community. Topics include professionalism in gym environments, effective delivery mechanisms for tough conversations, and cultivating the skill of handling challenging dialogues with grace. 
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 Intro 
 00:00 • 3min 
 Navigating Tough Conversations and Relationship Dynamics in the Gym Environment 
 02:31 • 29min 
 Navigating Difficult Coaching Conversations in a Gym Setting 
 31:59 • 16min 
 Navigating Professionalism in a Jujitsu Gym Environment 
 48:26 • 2min 
 Effective Delivery Mechanisms for Difficult Coaching Conversations 
 50:46 • 6min 
 Cultivating the Skill of Having Difficult Conversations Effectively 
 57:15 • 4min 
 Discussion on Gym Culture, Prioritizing Safety and Fun Over Technique 
 01:01:18 • 4min 

