Intelligence Squared Jordan Stephens on Love, Chaos and Becoming a Man, Part Two
Aug 31, 2024
Join Jordan Stephens, Rizzle Kicks musician and author, and Munya Chawawa, comedian and satirist, as they dive into the complexities of love and masculinity. Jordan reveals his struggles with self-harm, the chaos of fame, and how ADHD shapes his creative journey. They passionately discuss the societal pressures on men, advocating for vulnerability and emotional growth. Their candid conversation emphasizes the importance of redefining masculinity and fostering deeper connections in relationships, all while navigating the tricky waters of heartbreak and healing.
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Dealing with Heartbreak
- Process heartbreak and grief by allowing yourself to feel it.
- Avoid coping mechanisms like staying busy, drinking, or casual sex, as they only postpone processing.
Men and Pain
- Men often believe they can "fix" emotional pain, unlike women who view pain as an inherent experience.
- This difference in perception can explain why pain hits men harder, as they haven't learned that it fades.
Cisco as a Gateway
- Jordan's performance of Cisco's "Thong Song" at age seven was his gateway to realizing his passion for entertaining.
- His mother's encouragement to perform and diverse musical taste played a crucial role in his creative journey.
