A shocking revelation about a sociopathic colleague who is also a doctor, and the dilemma it creates. Dealing with the safety of a violent adopted brother. PTSD and anxiety caused by a contentious coworker. The positive impact of a more positive attitude.
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Discovering a colleague who is a sociopath doctor raises concerns about the fate of patients.
Caring for a criminally violent adopted brother poses a dilemma between his safety and the parents' well-being.
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Rental Dispute with a Colleague
Last year, following my divorce, I temporarily moved out of my home and rented a unit from a colleague named Chris, which he was planning to list on Airbnb. Initially, I informed Chris that I would need the rental for two months, followed by a one-month absence to visit family. Before leaving, I asked if there was a possibility of extending the rental for an additional month upon my return, to which Chris agreed. However, when I returned, Chris sent me a text claiming that I had missed the payment for the month I was away. I explained that we did not have a rental agreement for that month, but he disagreed. After referencing our previous conversations, conducted via text, he remained adamant. In an attempt to resolve the situation, I promptly vacated the property the following day.
Despite offering alternative solutions
such as paying for storage of my belongings while away or contributing to half the rent, Chris declined these suggestions. A few days later, Chris confronted me angrily in my office, but I stood my ground, reiterating my previous statements and maintaining my offer. The dispute remains unresolved. Although I had hoped to maintain a cordial relationship with Chris, this disagreement has strained our interaction. I am disappointed by the lack of resolution and the escalation of tensions in this situation.
Dealing with a Difficult Colleague and Legal Issues
The podcast episode discusses a listener's situation with a difficult colleague who is causing legal problems. The colleague has filed a small claims court case against the listener over a dispute involving an Airbnb rental. The listener's mental health has been impacted, and they are uncertain about how to manage the situation.
Using HHC as a Form of Self-Medication
The podcast episode explores a listener's use of HHC, a synthetic cannabis derivative, for relaxation and reflection. The listener has experienced positive effects on their mood, relationships, and overall well-being. However, they are concerned about potential addiction and the conflict between their image of a serious person and their use of HHC. The episode suggests seeking therapy to address the underlying anxiety and OCD, and finding a balanced approach to using HHC.
Finding out your colleague's a legitimate sociopath who preys on the sympathy of others is bad enough, but he's also a doctor. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
Finding out your colleague's a legitimate sociopath, drunk, and drug addict who preys on the sympathy of others is bad enough — but he also happens to be a doctor who controls the fate of countless lives. Now that this has been uncovered, what happens next?
Caring for your criminally violent nine-year-old adopted brother puts your aging parents in danger. Is there a compromise that would ensure their safety without abandoning him to the foster system that failed him? [Thanks to licensed marriage and family therapist Nancy Yen for helping us with this one!]
A legal battle with a contentious, antagonistic coworker exacerbates your struggles with PTSD and anxiety. Quitting your job over this seems like the only way to stop sharing uncomfortable space with this guy, but what are your options?
Though it's contributed to a more positive overall attitude that's improved your life significantly and helped you kick alcohol, you worry that vaping small doses of synthetic, legal cannabis derivative HHC has you hooked. Does the good outweigh the bad here, or is your concern warranted? [Thanks to clinical psychologist and addiction specialist Dr. Rubin Khoddam for helping us with this one!]
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!