Scott H Young, an expert on human behavior and technology, discusses the psychology of phone addiction and offers tips on breaking the habit through digital decluttering and intentional consumption.
Unpredictable rewards strengthen the habit of phone checking, similar to how random food rewards reinforce lever-pushing in rats.
Creating psychological distance and evaluating the value of tech usage can help break digital compulsions and foster curated consumption.
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Unpredictable rewards and compulsive phone checking
The psychology behind the compulsion to check our phones can be explained by the law of effect proposed by psychologist Edward Thorndyke. While a consistently rewarded action would be expected to result in more durable behavior, unpredictable rewards actually lead to more persistent behavior. When we check our phones and receive random rewarding stimuli, it strengthens the habit of phone checking. This is similar to how a rat that only receives a food pellet sometimes will continue pushing the lever long after the pellets stop being dispensed. This psychological quirk also helps explain why slot machines and social media algorithms are so addictive.
Kicking our wasteful social media habits
To break our digital compulsions, it is important to create psychological distance and evaluate the value of our tech usage. In a course called Life of Focus, students are guided through a digital declutter for one month, restricting non-mandatory social media and device usage. While this doesn't eliminate years of reinforcement, it provides an opportunity to assess which tools and services are truly worth keeping. The next step involves a deliberate and conscious form of consumption, reintroducing useful tools and services with carefully constructed guardrails to prevent them from taking over our lives. Cultivating curated consumption can help us read more books, be more present with our families, and avoid daily negativity encountered online.
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Understanding the Psychology of Phone Addiction and Overcoming It