Halacha Headlines 11/15/25 – Shiur 535 – Online Dating in the Orthodox World
Nov 14, 2025
Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz, a leading halachic authority, discusses the ethics of online dating in Orthodox communities, emphasizing honesty in profiles and the risks of sharing photos. Dr. Rachel Ginsberg shares fascinating research on dating behaviors, noting that Modern Orthodox singles are more likely to use apps than their Yeshivish counterparts. Lisa Elefant presents AdoptAShadchan's innovative matchmaking support, while Malka Levitin explains Canopy Shiduchim's privacy-first approach to connecting singles. Together, they explore the evolving landscape of shidduch practices.
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Read The Fine Print On Platforms
- Read privacy and sharing terms before using online dating platforms because your data may be widely accessible.
- Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz warns never assume a photo or message won’t be forwarded beyond the intended recipient.
Don’t Build A Relationship On Lies
- Do not lie about age, height, weight, or key facts on dating profiles; honesty builds a lasting foundation.
- Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz says small exaggerations are unwise and can undermine trust long-term.
Disclose Material Omissions
- Disclose significant facts a prospective partner would reasonably want to know and wouldn’t know to ask.
- Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz says omissions that materially affect a match must be shared proactively.
