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16. Dr. Rick's Foolproof Formula for Reconciliation | John Ortberg

Sep 30, 2024
John Ortberg, a renowned speaker and author focused on spiritual growth, joins to dive into the intricate dynamics of relationships. They explore the crucial distinction between forgiveness and reconciliation, introducing the CRAFT model for effective conflict resolution. Emotional flooding and its impact on communication are examined, along with strategies for managing intense feelings. The importance of pausing during heated discussions is highlighted, wrapped up with a prayer to enhance emotional awareness in relationships.
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  • The CRAFT model provides a structured approach to reconciliation, emphasizing the importance of communication and emotional regulation during conflicts.
  • Viewing conflicts as opportunities for growth and connection can enhance relationships when managed through effective resolution strategies.

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Understanding Relational Conflict

Relational conflict is a natural occurrence in close relationships, and it’s inevitable that individuals will hurt one another at times. The key to navigating these conflicts lies not in the absence of disagreement, but in the ability to handle the repair and recovery processes effectively. Recognizing that conflicts can be opportunities for growth is crucial, as they allow for a deeper connection between individuals when managed appropriately. Tools and strategies for conflict resolution are essential to foster trust and strengthen relationships, as avoiding conflict can lead to unresolved issues that may harm the relationship in the long run.

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