

27 - Betrayal and Forgiveness w/Christopher Wade
Radical Forgiveness and Healing After Betrayal and HIV Diagnosis
Christopher Wade shares a raw, personal story of falling in love, betrayal, and radical forgiveness after being secretly infected with HIV by a partner who was a doctor.
He details his working-class upbringing and contrasts it with the high status he associated with his partner, revealing the deep manipulation and deceit he endured.
Despite the pain, including being dumped immediately after his diagnosis, contracting syphilis and gonorrhea from the same partner, and an abusive relationship, Christopher highlights the importance of forgiveness and healing as crucial steps forward.
He channels his experience into founding the Mulwade Foundation, which supports people with HIV and creates safe spaces and community.
He emphasizes that forgiveness doesn't come easily for everyone but stresses its vital role in recovery and moving on.
Christopher's HIV Betrayal Story
- Christopher Wade shares his shocking experience of contracting HIV from a partner who deceived him about his status.
- Despite betrayal and abuse, Christopher stayed initially and later fought for justice through the courts.
Power of Forgiveness and Healing
- Forgiveness and healing are essential for moving forward after trauma.
- Christopher emphasizes the importance of finding forgiveness within oneself for true healing.