This conversation cracked something wide open.

Samantha Bove and I went deep into the sacred mess of love, healing, and learning to receive—not just romance, but support, softness, and pleasure without apology. Samantha is a women’s intuition mentor and Reiki teacher and in this conversation we talked about the quiet grief of being “easy to love” but not fully chosen, the difference between a partner’s potential and prophecy, and the holy work of rebuilding when your heart still remembers what hurt.

You’ll feel the ache. You’ll feel the power. You’ll feel seen.

This isn’t a roadmap—it’s a remembering. For the woman learning to trust her timing, honor her truth, and soften into the version of love that doesn’t require over-performing to be held.

Inside This Episode:

Embracing singlehood without waiting
Softness as power
The burden of being the “easy one”
Rewiring to receive love, support & sex without shame
Quirks, prophecy, and choosing reality over potential
Reclaiming truth as a love language
Why pleasure is a spiritual practice

Why This One Matters:
Because love doesn’t have to hurt to be real.
Because your softness is not a liability.
Because receiving is your birthright—and this episode is your permission slip.

Remember you are so resourced, here are the ones mentioned in this episode:

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Reiki Retreats with Samantha

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