Seriously... Seven Deadly Psychologies - 3. Lust
Jan 12, 2024
In this engaging discussion, Dr. Anand Patel, a GP specializing in men's health, and Dr. Kate Lister, a sex historian and author, unpack the complexities of lust. They explore the evolutionary and psychological roots of lust and its differences from love, discussing how personal and cultural factors shape our experiences. Historical perspectives reveal societal attitudes towards sexuality over time, while the conversation emphasizes the need for openness about desires and consent. With humor and insight, the duo highlights the importance of embracing diverse sexual identities.
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Human Lust: Instinct and Control
- Lust is an instinctive emotion vital for reproduction, distinct from love which supports long-term relationships.
- Humans uniquely combine lust with social interaction and conscious brain control to override impulsive sexual urges.
Neurochemistry of Limerence and Love
- Limerence is a neurochemical madness involving dopamine and oxytocin that causes obsession at the start of love.
- This intense rush often fades, evolving into comfortable compassionate love with higher oxytocin and lower cortisol.
Personal and Cultural Influence on Lust
- We all have different sexual drives shaped by parental, cultural, social, and media influences.
- Societal acceptance or rejection of sexual desires deeply affects self-identity and expression.