Sound Plus Doctrine Hard Conversations With Your Musicians
Oct 6, 2025
The hosts discuss the challenge of having hard conversations with musicians, emphasizing the need for a culture of encouragement. They share personal stories and insights on giving feedback relationally, separating critique from personal artistry. The importance of addressing lack of skill and practice with grace is highlighted. They also delve into managing character concerns within the team, advocating for gospel-shaped compassion. Leaders are encouraged to self-examine and maintain humility while striving for authentic worship in their communities.
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Humiliating Rehearsal Moment
- David Zimmer recalled playing drums unprepared and being publicly rebuked after rehearsal.
- The episode used this story to show how harsh reactions destroy team culture and drive people away.
Cultivate Encouragement First
- Build a culture of encouragement before correction so feedback lands well.
- Publicly affirm small improvements to make critique expected and relationally safe.
Normalize Honest Evaluation
- Normalize evaluation so team members expect and invite feedback publicly and privately.
- Make critique relational, ask questions, and offer specific alternatives during rehearsal.
