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Curiosity Chronicle

Weekly Question & Framework: April 12, 2024

Apr 12, 2024
03:40
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Learn how to improve relationships by listening to understand and balancing effort. Explore a conflict resolution model based on collaborative listening and the intriguing concept of the Law of Reversed Effort.
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Quick takeaways

  • Active listening fosters understanding in conflicts, shifting from 'me versus you' to 'problem versus us'.
  • Embracing balanced effort over intense striving leads to greater success and avoids burnout in various aspects of life.

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Listening to Understand in Relationships

Successful conflict resolution in relationships hinges on actively listening to understand rather than waiting to speak. The traditional approach of waiting for an opportunity to interject during conflicts can hinder mutual understanding and growth within relationships. Dr. Julie Garner suggests shifting from a confrontational mindset to a collaborative one by focusing on listening to understand each other, fostering a 'problem versus us' dynamic rather than 'me versus you'. By working together to solve problems, couples can navigate conflicts more effectively.

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