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Are “onlies” lonely? Busting myths about only children, with Toni Falbo, PhD

Oct 16, 2024
Toni Falbo, a Professor of Educational Psychology at UT Austin and expert on only children, dispels myths about their supposed loneliness and maladjustment. She reveals that only children often excel socially and academically, challenging negative stereotypes. The discussion navigates the growing trend of single-child families, influenced by modern factors like economic concerns. Practical parenting advice on promoting healthy social interactions rounds out the conversation, debunking myths around screen time and imaginary friends.
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  • Research challenges the myth that only children are lonely, revealing they often report lower loneliness levels than peers with siblings.
  • Focused parental attention for only children enhances their academic skills, enabling them to develop strong social abilities over time.

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Debunking Stereotypes About Only Children

Many common stereotypes suggest that only children are lonely, spoiled, and maladjusted, originating from a misunderstanding of their experiences. Historically, these beliefs were based on assumptions rather than scientific evidence, with people presuming that a lack of siblings leads to social and developmental deficits. However, research shows that only children often fare just as well, or even better, in various aspects of life compared to their peers with siblings. For example, studies indicate that only children in countries like China report feeling less lonely than those with siblings, challenging the notion that isolation leads to chronic loneliness.

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