Sons of Patriarchy Excommunicated: Abuse in the PCA, Part 1
Jan 30, 2025
Joyce Rohe, a former member of Rio Vista Community Church, shares her harrowing experience of marital abuse and unjust church discipline. Lynna Sutherland, founder of Advocacy from the Presbyterian Pew, discusses the complexities of PCA polity and the challenges victims face. Donna Westcott, a licensed counselor, critiques biblical counseling's shortcomings and emphasizes the need for trauma-informed approaches. Together, they explore systemic issues in handling abuse and advocate for compassion, education, and justice in church settings.
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Call Outside Experts Immediately
- When a church member discloses abuse, prioritize their safety and call civil authorities if needed.
- Immediately involve outside professionals (e.g., GRACE, local domestic violence shelters) instead of internal investigations.
Gender Bias Shapes Case Outcomes
- Gender dynamics and complementarian assumptions can bias leaders to protect men and doubt women.
- Fear of being labeled 'feminist' or 'woke' can silence acknowledgment of abuse.
Prioritize Safety Over Procedure
- Elders must treat a woman's immediate safety as the first priority when she reports marital harm.
- Do not prioritize procedure over protecting a vulnerable spouse.