Fix CPTSD Podcast | Psychology and Philosophy in Narcissistic Times with Richard Grannon How Covert Narcissists Brain Wash Their Victims
Jun 5, 2020
Dive into the insidious world of covert narcissism, where abusers mask their toxicity with a facade of kindness. Discover how they create confusion and manipulate their victims, leading to a gradual erosion of sanity. Through personal stories and historical examples, the discussion reveals the psychological toll of such relationships. Learn practical strategies to recognize these subtle tactics and reclaim your sense of self. This exploration sheds light on overcoming the mental fog and empowering victims to break free from manipulation.
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What Covert Really Means
- Covert means hidden and under the surface, operating in secret to prey on emotional supply.
- That invisibility creates uncertainty for the target about whether abuse is happening.
Gulag Example Of Hidden Abuse
- A client compared two gulags: one that openly tortured and one that 'loved' prisoners while abusing them.
- The loving gulag was crueler because victims couldn't call the abuse what it was.
Brainwashing Is Heartwashing
- Brainwashing literally meant 'heart washing' in Chinese, implying cleansing mind, heart, and spirit.
- Covert abuse uses similar reframing to call torture 'love' or 're-education.'
