Brant Hansen, author of (Young) Men We Need, discusses reshaping masculinity by emphasizing being a protector and cultivator of influence. The conversation explores communication challenges for young men, embracing life-changing principles, and encouraging growth through positive messaging during graduation season.
Embrace a constructive model of masculinity emphasizing protection, provision, and cultivation.
Utilize words carefully to create nurturing environments and positive impact on relationships.
Deep dives
The Importance of Defining Masculinity
Understanding the essence of masculinity is crucial to guiding men on their journey. Brent Hanson advocates for a clear vision of masculinity that goes beyond mere calls to 'man up', emphasizing the need for a constructive model. By framing masculinity as being a protector, cultivator, and provider of security, Brent challenges traditional stereotypes and invites men to embrace a more fulfilling and rewarding version of manhood.
The Significance of Words and Protection
The power of words in shaping masculinity is highlighted, urging men to exercise caution in their communication. Brent emphasizes the importance of creating a secure and nurturing environment through words and actions, focusing on building others up rather than tearing them down. He underscores the need for men to understand the impact of their words, especially in relationships, where sarcasm and negativity can have lasting effects.
Encouraging Growth and Compassion
Brent encourages older men to embrace change and share their stories without shame, inspiring a positive transformation that can resonate with younger generations. He advocates for understanding and compassion towards younger men, acknowledging the challenges they face in a culture that often lacks solid role models. By sharing experiences and offering guidance rooted in love and respect, older men can shape a more empowering narrative for the next generation.
Brant Hansen is back, talking about his newest book: (Young) Men We Need: God’s Purpose for Every Guy and How You Can Live It Out. The world needs young men to grow up into real men. But here's the problem: young men get so many conflicting messages about what it means to be a man, they find it hard to know what masculinity looks like when men are at their absolute best.
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