

96. How to Trust the Process of Unschooling
11 snips Aug 8, 2025
Dive into a heartfelt discussion about the essence of trust in unschooling and parenting. Explore the delicate balance between nurturing and control, and how societal pressures shape our beliefs. Acknowledge the power of intuition and somatic awareness to overcome fear. Discover the art of surrendering expectations, fostering deeper connections with children. Embrace mindful observation as a tool for growth and collaboration in family dynamics. Transform parenting into a journey of trust, love, and shared experiences.
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Call Someone To Unwobble
- Call a friend or partner and say "help me unwobble" when fear spikes.
- Pause, breathe, and follow their prompt to avoid reactive control.
Environment Forces Trust
- Living in rural Oaxaca with scorpions pushed Becka to practice vigilance while still trusting life.
- She balanced safety measures with acceptance that accidents and learning are part of growth.
Trust Develops With Repeated Risk
- Choosing unconventional paths creates more small risks that demand trust.
- Repeated practice with those risks strengthens your ability to surrender control.