Lonely? There's an app for that... but should there be?
Feb 24, 2025
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This week features Sam Pressler, a community and social connection researcher at the University of Virginia, and Vauhini Vara, a veteran tech reporter and author. They explore the paradox of technology in combating loneliness. Discussion centers on how social media often hinders authentic connections while new apps like Meeno and Peoplehood attempt to forge relationships. The conversation critiques individual tech solutions and emphasizes the importance of community building for genuine connections, questioning if tech is part of the solution or part of the problem.
While technology seeks to address loneliness through various apps, it often exacerbates the problem by prioritizing algorithmic engagement over genuine human connections.
Experts suggest that fostering true community relationships through structural changes and civic engagement is more effective than relying solely on tech-based solutions for combating loneliness.
Deep dives
The Link Between Technology and Loneliness
Studies indicate a strong correlation between technology use and feelings of loneliness among Americans. Many individuals experience loneliness due to spending excessive amounts of time on social media and digital platforms that prioritize engagement metrics over genuine human connection. Social media algorithms often favor popular influencers over personal connections, leading to a sense of disconnection and emotional isolation. As a result, although technology has the potential to bring people together, it may equally contribute to feelings of being alone in a hyper-connected world.
Emerging Tech Solutions for Loneliness
In response to the growing issue of loneliness, various startups are attempting to leverage technology to foster social connections. Apps like Mino offer relationship advice through AI, while Peoplehood facilitates guided group conversations aimed at building community. However, critics argue that these tech solutions often monetize innate human needs for connection, creating a system where genuine friendships may become a commodified service rather than an authentic experience. This raises questions about the effectiveness of these tech solutions in truly addressing loneliness as they target profit-driven models rather than community building.
Community Engagement Over App Dependency
Experts advocate for a shift towards community-based solutions rather than reliance on apps to counter loneliness. They emphasize the importance of structural changes and civic engagement that nurture genuine relationships within neighborhoods. Historical community infrastructures, such as churches and local groups, had provided critical social frameworks that have diminished over time, leaving individuals to seek connections through tech instead. Cultivating communal life and investing in public spaces can significantly enhance social interactions and combat loneliness more effectively than technology-based interventions.
We're back with "All the Lonely People," a series diving deep into how loneliness shows up in our lives.
This week: can tech cure our loneliness? Companies like Meeno (an AI relationship coaching app), Peoplehood (a platform that organizes guided group conversations), Timeleft (an app which matches strangers for dinner), and Bumble for Friends all say they want to help people make more and better connections. But do we need tech solutions to what may partially be a tech problem? Brittany sits down with Sam Pressler, who studies community and social connection at the University of Virginia's Karsh Institute of Democracy, and Vauhini Vara, veteran tech reporter and author of the upcoming book Searches: Selfhood in the Digital Age, to break it all down.