

56. WeOS: Optimizing Relationships At Work
In episode 56 of the "Art of We" podcast, hosts Krista and Dr. Will Van Derveer delve into the intricate relationship between personal and professional growth and what can be possible inside professional relationships that have varying hierarchical structures or power dynamics.
They revisit Stan Taktin’s concept of "secure functioning" and introduce their We Operating System (WeOS), a framework influenced by neuroscience, The Collaborative Way, and growth mindsets. The hosts unpack three crucial elements for fostering optimal relationships in hierarchical settings, emphasizing the integration of personal and professional development, establishing collaborative agreements, and embracing a progress-over-perfection mindset.
Main Topics Covered:
The “WeOS” Framework:
- Introduction to the neuroscience-inspired concept of "secure functioning"
- Overview of their We Operating System (WeOS), incorporating three key components: Secure Functioning, Growth-Oriented Mindset, and the Collaborative Way.
Three Essential Elements for Optimal Professional Relationships:
- Committing to personal growth together within hierarchical relationships.
- Establishing agreements and practices to promote a more secure, strong and healthy working relationship.
- Embracing progress over perfection, focusing on excellence and continuous learning.
Leadership Responsibility and Team Dynamics:
- The role of leaders in practicing collaborative agreements and remaining open to feedback.
- Reflections on the collaborative nature of successful team dynamics and the impact of these principles on overall team performance.
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Resources Mentioned:
- The Art of We Episode 52: Why You Want A Secure Functioning Business Partnership
- The Collaborative Way
- Stan Tatkin PACT
- The Art Of We - Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements
Get in Touch:
- The Art Of We Website
- The Art of We Instagram
- Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Integrative Mental Wellness & Psychedelic Therapy Training
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