Paul Assaiante, the winningest coach in college sports history, shares wisdom from his 30 years at Trinity College, leading the squash team to 17 national titles. He discusses confronting fear through his philosophy of 'Run to the Roar' and the importance of emotional regulation. The conversation explores navigating obsession versus perseverance, the impact of transparency in team dynamics, and the necessity of allowing children to embrace failure for growth. His unique journey highlights how sports strategies can translate into valuable lessons for leadership and personal development.
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From Gymnastics to Squash
Paul Assaiante's early sports journey involved gymnastics and a chance national championship appearance.
Despite aiming for the Olympics, an injury led him to tennis and then unexpectedly to coaching squash.
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Obsession vs. Perseverance
Obsession can be detrimental due to ego attachment to outcomes.
True success lies in finding joy in the process and maintaining a balanced perspective.
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Learning from Legends
Assaiante learned from Coach K the importance of motivation and empathy in coaching.
He also learned from Jack Riley to nurture players' spirits and avoid breaking them.
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Run to the Roar is not just a book about squash; it is an invaluable reflection on mentoring, leadership, and parenting. The book focuses on a pivotal match between Trinity and Princeton at the 2009 national championships, highlighting how Coach Paul Assaiante drives his players to achieve success. It explores themes of teamwork, managing personalities, and overcoming fear under pressure.
Coach Paul Assaiante is the winningest coach in college sports history. For 30 years until announcing his retirement at the end of this season, Coach led the Trinity College squash program to 17 national championships and 20 finals appearances in the last 25 years, including at one point winning 252 straight matches and 13 straight national titles. In his final season, Trinity’s squash team entered the national championships with the #6 seed and rode an almost fairy tale bookend to Coach’s career to the finals and within a single point of an 18th national title. Paul also coached the USA National Team in squash for 17 years, Trinity’s men’s tennis squad for 24 years, and World Team Tennis with Billie Jean King in its heyday. In 2010, he authored Run to the Roar: Coaching to Overcome Fear, one of my favorite books on sports and leadership. Perhaps what is most fascinating about the soft-spoken Coach is he knew nothing about squash when he got his first coaching job. His true expertise is in managing, motivating, and inspiring a diverse group of players to be the best version of themselves. Our conversation covers Coach Paul’s path and a career’s worth of wisdom about preparation, emotional regulation, managing high performing individuals on a team, diversity, facing fear, learning to win and lose, and applying the lessons to the business world and next generation.
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