Intelligence Squared The Power of Good Conversation, with Jefferson Fisher (Part One)
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Jun 14, 2025 
Jefferson Fisher, a trial lawyer turned communication expert and author of 'The Next Conversation,' dives into the essence of effective communication. He explores how modern dialogues can feel divisive and shares practical strategies to enhance conversational skills. Fisher emphasizes the importance of empathy and understanding in conversations, urging listeners to shift focus from winning arguments to fostering connections. He also shares insights on managing emotional reactions during discussions, highlighting techniques for calm engagement.
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Upbringing Shapes Communication Skills
- Jefferson Fisher attributes his communication skills to his upbringing by diplomatic and kind parents and his trial lawyer experience.
- Effective communication is a cultivated skill influenced by family and professional practice.
Oldest Sibling Shapes Communication
- Jefferson Fisher shares how being the eldest sibling shaped his sense of responsibility and communication style.
- His siblings often listened to him more than their parents, illustrating the unique role of the oldest child.
Digital Communication Triggers Fight or Flight
- Modern digital communication often triggers fight or flight responses and encourages reactive, defensive interactions.
- The shift from real conversations to quick reactions has caused a loss of deeper listening and genuine dialogue.
