

BONUS: Lucky Boy
Aug 21, 2025
Delve into the complexities of female teachers forming relationships with young male students. The conversation sheds light on the moral implications and societal perceptions surrounding these dynamics. Explore the idea of women as 'female chauvinist pigs' and the evolving interest of men in dating older women. The discussions also introduce a unique theory about 'nonce radar' and challenge the traditional views on consent in educational settings.
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Case Overview: Lucky Boy Podcast
- Louise Perry and Meghan Murphy describe the Tortoise Media series Lucky Boy about a teenage boy's affair with his teacher.
- The case centers on Gareth's relationship beginning at 14 and lasting about six months, and the podcast's investigation into its effects.
Gareth's Memory: 'Cat Who Got The Cream'
- Meghan recalls Gareth saying he felt 'like the cat who got the cream' after first sex with his teacher.
- She notes peers saw the teacher as 'the hot teacher' and envied his selection.
Seeking Accountability Elsewhere
- Meghan Murphy argues that survivors sometimes seek accountability from other adults when their abuser is unavailable or dead.
- She suggests Gareth may have pursued his teacher partly because he could not hold his abusive father accountable.