18 Months Into Retirement, This is What Surprised Me Most | Retirement Reality

Dec 24, 2025

Christian candidly shares his first 18 months of retirement, revealing how the stress of a demanding job slowly dissipated, akin to shedding a heavy coat. He found liberation in stepping away from an 'always-on' mindset, allowing for healthier habits and deeper connections. Reflecting on personal experiences, he emphasizes the importance of prioritizing quality time with loved ones over financial gains. As he navigates newfound passions and hobbies, he encourages others to embrace the emotional journey of retirement beyond just financial planning.

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INSIGHT

Stress Often Disappears Gradually

Retirement can remove a chronic, unnoticed stress that feels like carrying a 30-pound jacket.
The relief can arrive gradually over weeks as physical and mental habits unwind.

ANECDOTE

Seven Years From 'Optional' To Done

Christian tracked finances for decades and realized in 2017 that work had become optional.
He then deliberately planned toward retiring at 55 to capture company health benefits and use Rule 55 for withdrawals.

INSIGHT

Small Daily Rituals Replace Work Rhythm

Retirement freed large blocks of unstructured time that Christian uses to deepen daily life with his wife.
Small daily rituals, like cooking together, became central to his happiness.

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Christian thought he was ready for retirement. He just didn’t realize how heavy the weight had been until he finally set it down.

After more than 30 years in a high-stress, always-on role at a global chemical company, Christian retired and discovered something he didn’t expect: the stress didn’t disappear all at once. It slowly melted away, like taking off a 30-pound jacket he didn’t even realize he’d been wearing.

In this episode of Retirement Reality, Christian shares what the first 18 months of retirement have really felt like, both different and deeply liberating. He opens up about realizing work had become optional years before he actually left, navigating the mental shift from “always on” to fully unplugged, and why retirement gave him permission to finally live healthier and slower.

But the heart of this conversation isn’t spreadsheets or withdrawal strategies. It’s about priorities. Christian reflects on watching his father delay retirement, losing his mother too soon, and making a conscious decision not to repeat that pattern. For him, retirement became less about maximizing wealth and more about maximizing time with his wife — cooking together, spending unstructured days side by side, and building a life rooted in presence instead of pressure.

If you’re financially prepared but emotionally unsure, Christian’s story offers a steady, honest look at what actually happens after you step away, and why the freedom on the other side often feels lighter than you imagined.

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