

Building Your Personal Brand Through Authentic Connections with J. Kelly Hoey
Your network often sees your magic before you do. J. Kelly Hoey, author of Build Your Dream Network, proved this when her colleagues had to convince her that networking was actually her superpower. As my very first podcast guest, Kelly set the tone for what Branding Room Only is all about: clarity, candor, and community-centered insight.
Kelly's brand is grounded in helping others succeed through meaningful connections. Her approach has transformed careers for countless entrepreneurs and leaders, and her journey from Big Law to entrepreneurship proves the power of strategic relationship building. In this special re-release, we dive deep into what personal branding really means, how your network reflects and reinforces your brand, and why your elevator pitch should be an invitation, not a monologue.
Whether this is your first time hearing this conversation or you're back for a refresher, get ready to take notes. This episode is packed with foundational wisdom that never goes out of style.
2:30 – What personal brand means to Kelly and why you need to listen to your network
5:04 – Kelly's approach to elevator pitches and networking your ambitions
11:11 – How Kelly describes herself and the Central Park analogy that changed everything
16:14 – The Oscar Wilde quote that guides Kelly when she feels off track
18:12 – Kelly's hype song from a Quincy Jones compilation
20:00 – How Kelly's network convinced her to write Build Your Dream Network
23:40 – Why personal branding became the confidence builder she needed
27:04 – Mentors who shaped Kelly's career (including some unexpected lessons)
31:45 – The pivotal career change that taught Kelly about plan B
35:00 – The best advice about having a plan B (spoiler: you shouldn't have one)
37:19 – The biggest networking mistake and why "don't be a jerk" is the real secret
41:41 – Kelly's best advice for building your brand through your network
43:25 – How to handle network feedback about your ambitions
45:04 – Kelly's "Stand By Your Brand" moment and her networking magic
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