

016: When Your Husband Hurts Your Feelings
Mar 9, 2020
Darlene, a mother who reunited with her first love after 20 years, shares her emotional journey of rekindling their relationship. She emphasizes the power of vulnerability and the simple yet impactful response 'ouch' to express hurt feelings. Darlene discusses overcoming emotional distance and the transformative power of understanding in relationships. She candidly reflects on her struggles with grief and loss, revealing how personal growth and coaching helped her reconnect with her daughter's father and deepened their familial bonds.
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Responding to Hurt Feelings
- Instead of retaliating when your husband hurts your feelings, try saying "ouch".
- This vulnerability can lead to tenderness and accountability.
When "Ouch" Doesn't Work
- If your husband doesn't respond well to "ouch," consider if you've already retaliated.
- Ensure your words and actions align for a more effective approach.
Darlene and Jay's Reunion
- Darlene and Jay's relationship fizzled after their daughter's birth, leading to 20 years of separation.
- A chance encounter at Darlene's daughter's workplace brought them back together.