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Have a New Kid by Friday with Dr. Kevin Leman

Are we contributing to our 6-year-old’s crying fits? — Ask Dr. Leman 218 (Episode 463)

Mar 28, 2023
Dr. Leman discusses strategies for managing a 6-year-old's crying fits, setting boundaries, and enforcing consequences. He emphasizes consistent parenting and the link between parenting and future behavior. The episode also includes a humorous tale of wild pigs in the yard and supporting a spouse.
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Quick takeaways

  • Crying for attention can reinforce manipulative behavior in children, leading to more frequent outbursts.
  • Involving children in household tasks from a young age fosters responsibility and accountability, shaping positive behavior patterns for the future.

Deep dives

Parenting a Powerful Child with Dr. Lehman

Dr. Lehman addresses Sarah's concern about her six-year-old son's excessive crying behavior. He explains that the child has learned that crying gets attention and serves a purpose in manipulating situations to get his way. Dr. Lehman recommends removing the audience by sending the child to his room as soon as he starts crying until he regains control of his emotions. Consistency in this approach is key to effectively managing the powerful child's behavior.

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