Have a New Kid by Friday with Dr. Kevin Leman Are we contributing to our 6-year-old’s crying fits? — Ask Dr. Leman 218 (Episode 463)
Mar 28, 2023
Dr. Leman discusses strategies for managing a 6-year-old's crying fits, setting boundaries, and enforcing consequences. He emphasizes consistent parenting and the link between parenting and future behavior. The episode also includes a humorous tale of wild pigs in the yard and supporting a spouse.
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Remove Audience for Crying Fits
- When a 6-year-old cries to get their own way, remove the audience by placing them in their room immediately at the first tear.
- They stay there until they control their emotions, and this must be done consistently by both parents for effectiveness.
Purpose Behind Powerful Child's Crying
- A powerful child learns early that crying gets them attention and control, often escalating their emotional outbursts.
- This behavior reflects a deep desire to dominate and be perfect in their own view of the world.
Parents Must Change Behavior
- Parents must change their behavior and mindset to handle powerful children effectively, avoiding guilt or sympathy reactions.
- Present a firm and unyielding attitude without showing guilt or softness when enforcing discipline.
