Breaking Free from "I Need to Do It All" to Focusing on What Matters Most - A Conversation with Quantrilla Ard, PhD
Oct 4, 2023
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Morgan Harper Nichols chats with Quantrilla Ard, PhD, about breaking free from the need to do it all. They discuss finding relief, joy, and purpose in life, embracing multiple passions, navigating challenging circumstances, managing overwhelming moments, the power of storytelling, and expressing gratitude on social media.
Listening to your body and acknowledging your capacity is key to finding relief, joy, and peace amidst difficult circumstances.
Learning to say no, creating boundaries, and prioritizing personal well-being brings freedom and relief.
Deep dives
Importance of Recognizing Tension and Building Capacity
Recognizing the tension between wanting to go deeper and finding joy, the speaker emphasizes the importance of listening to your body and acknowledging your capacity. They emphasize the need to find relief, joy, and peace amidst difficult circumstances. They discuss the importance of highlighting both the negative and positive experiences in their advocacy work, such as bringing awareness to health disparities while also acknowledging stories of joy and success. The speaker encourages individuals to pace themselves, say no when necessary, and prioritize their own well-being.
Learning to Say No and Letting Go
The speaker shares their experience as a recovering yes person, always taking on more than they could handle. They emphasize the importance of learning to say no and letting go of responsibilities that exceed our capacity. They highlight the freedom and relief that comes with saying no and creating boundaries. The speaker discusses the challenges of setting boundaries, especially when dealing with well-meaning individuals, and emphasizes the importance of honoring one's own capacity and prioritizing personal well-being.
Embracing Plot Twists and Charting Your Path
The speaker shares their journey of unexpected plot twists and embracing paths that were not initially planned. They encourage young individuals to embrace the complexity of life and understand that things may not always go as planned. They emphasize the importance of starting with the end in mind and focusing on unique ways of showing up in the world. The speaker advises against setting rigid long-term plans and instead encourages individuals to listen to their bodies and make decisions that align with their purpose and well-being.
Finding Community and Support
The speaker highlights the importance of community and finding support in the journey of building capacity and navigating life's challenges. They discuss their presence on various social media platforms where they connect with others and share their work. The podcast episode ends with an invitation for listeners to find more information and connect with the speaker through their social media accounts and blog.