So many women in perimenopause find themselves asking the same confusing question: Should I stay on birth control, switch to menopause hormone therapy, try both, or do nothing at all? And why does it feel like everyone has a different answer?

In this episode, we unpack why perimenopause can feel like a medical gray zone. Symptoms can be intense and unpredictable, hormone testing isn’t always clear, and many women are told they’re “too young” or “just stressed.” Add in social media opinions, antidepressants being prescribed first, and inconsistent medical guidance, and no wonder women feel lost.

We break down the real science behind:

• Birth control vs. Menopause Hormone Therapy (MHT)

• How doctors decide what to recommend

• Whether you can transition directly from the pill to MHT

• What realistic symptom relief looks like

• How long adjustments actually take

• What to do if spotting or symptoms continue

We also address the biggest myths, like:

• “You can’t be in perimenopause if you’re on the pill.”

• “You have to wait until your period stops to use hormones.”

Plus, we shine a light on women who are often left out of the conversation:

• Those with severe PMS or PMDD

• Women in early menopause

• Women after hysterectomy

• Women wondering about testosterone, libido, brain fog & mood

This episode is about clarity, options, and informed choice. Perimenopause is not a failure of your body, and confusion around hormones is NOT your fault. You deserve education, thoughtful support, and individualized care, not guesswork or fear-based advice.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, you’re not alone. This conversation will help you understand what’s really happening in your body and how to approach hormone decisions with confidence.

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