The Power of Listening to Transform The Advisor-Client Relationship, with Rob Miles from Truist Wealth
Jan 29, 2024
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Financial advisor Rob Miles shares the importance of listening to clients' needs, emphasizing the power of actively exploring their hopes, dreams, and fears. Slowing down and allowing clients to reflect on their financial lives can redefine the advisor-client relationship, lead to tears, and open up more opportunities for solutions. Advanced listening skills positively impact advisors' businesses. The podcast delves into the significance of listening, strategies to enhance it, and the transformative experiences it brings.
Listening is crucial for financial advisors to understand their clients' needs on a deeper level and provide personalized advice.
Active listening enables financial advisors to help clients gain clarity about their motivations, explore non-financial issues, and provide enduring support.
Deep dives
The Power of Listening in Financial Advisory
Listening is crucial in the financial advisory business as it allows advisors to understand their clients on a deeper level. Advisors must move away from simply giving recommendations and focus more on truly comprehending their clients' needs and concerns. The power of listening lies in the ability to provide personalized and effective advice. In today's fast-paced world, it can be challenging for people to focus and truly listen. Advisors should develop strategies to actively engage clients, such as using listening cards or asking open-ended questions. By becoming skilled listeners, advisors can create enduring and fulfilling relationships with their clients, leading to life-changing and generation-changing advice.
Becoming a Significant Figure in Clients' Lives through Active Listening
Active listening elevates financial advisors into significant characters in their clients' lives. By actively participating in the discovery process and facilitating self-reflection, advisors can help clients bring order to the chaos of their thoughts, gain clarity about their motivations and goals, and explore non-financial issues that may impact their financial decisions. This kind of conversation involves demonstrating authentic curiosity, respectfully observing clients, and asking open-ended and deep questions. Through this process, advisors become more integrated into their clients' decision-making and provide enduring support. Clients may also gain a different level of self-awareness and achieve a greater sense of clarity about their own lives through these conversations.
Overcoming Challenges and Cultivating the Skill of Active Listening
Becoming comfortable with active listening as a financial advisor can be challenging but transformative. To develop this skill, advisors need to embrace the mindset of seeing the world through their clients' eyes and valuing the issues broad in nature that clients want to discuss. Creating a framework for active listening, such as using listening cards, empowers clients to engage and express their thoughts freely. Advisors should demonstrate patience, authenticity, and curiosity, and avoid making assumptions. Additionally, advisors should set aside their own agenda and focus on uncovering clients' needs, concerns, and desires. Although behavior change can be difficult, advisors who have adopted active listening have seen significant positive outcomes in their client relationships and their ability to provide life-changing advice.
In this wide-ranging conversation Ken and Rob explore how the simple act of listening carefully to what a client is saying - and what a client is not saying - to more deeply understand what they actually need. It is far too easy for advisors to get caught up in explaining what they do and how they do it, and to neglect the simple act of actively exploring a client’s hopes and dreams and fears about the future. Rob explains how slowing down and allowing the client to think about the complexity of their financial life and to feel what this part of their life means to them can actually move some clients to tears. This redefines the fabric of relationship between the advisor and the client, solidifies the working relationship and opens up a much wider range of opportunities for the advisor to provide solutions to the client’s most urgent challenges. As Truist Wealth advisors have developed more advanced listening skills and a deeper commitment to understanding their clients there has been a direct and positive impact on the success of their businesses. The conversation weaves back and forth from philosophical to highly practical with a consistent focus on the power of listening to transform the working relationship between advisor and client.