No Stupid Questions 161. How Effective Are Ultimatums?
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Sep 3, 2023 How effective are ultimatums in relationships? The conversation dives into their complex nature, from romance to parenting, revealing how they can be manipulative yet necessary. The hosts explore compassionate ultimatums that promote honest communication and share anecdotes, including one involving Elon Musk. They even touch on a listener's take about nonverbal cues and self-confidence, wrapping up with a light-hearted invitation for audience stories and a tease for the next topic on self-compassion.
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Ultimatums in Relationships
- In interpersonal relationships, avoid ultimatums.
- Ultimatums create hostility and coercion, hindering healthy communication.
The Eloping Couple
- Angela Duckworth's friend gave her boyfriend an engagement ultimatum.
- Despite him missing the deadline, they later eloped and are happily married.
Angela's and Jason's Story
- Angela Duckworth knew she wanted to marry Jason two days after meeting him, even dreaming of their wedding.
- She never gave an ultimatum but expressed her feelings intensely.