Psych and the City Sides and Mixed Orientation Marriages With Dr. Joe Kort
Aug 23, 2025
Join psychotherapist Dr. Joe Kort, a pioneer in mixed orientation marriages and male sexuality, as he shares his profound insights from over 40 years in the field. He introduces the term 'sides', highlighting a unique identity among gay men who prefer non-penetrative sex. Dr. Kort candidly explores misconceptions about sex addiction and its impact on relationships. Delve into the emotional complexities of mixed orientation couples, the importance of empathy, and how understanding diverse sexual identities can enhance relational health.
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Journey From Sex Addiction To Sex-Affirming Therapy
- Joe Kort described his early career, coming out and struggling with kink being labeled as unwanted behavior.
- He attended sex addiction meetings, later re-evaluated and embraced sex-affirming therapy.
Practice Identity Shapes Access
- Kort's practice focuses on couples, kink, poly, and LGBTQIA clients while resisting being pigeonholed as 'only gay'.
- He emphasizes flexible practice names to avoid client misconceptions.
Avoid Bias With Mixed-Orientation Couples
- When treating mixed-orientation couples, avoid defaulting to 'leave or stay' commands for either partner.
- Support choices and help couples craft workable arrangements rather than imposing bias.
