Protecting Boys From Toxic Social Media with Peggy Orenstein
Nov 6, 2023
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Author and expert on toxic social media, Peggy Orenstein, discusses the negative impact of rigid masculinity on young men through social media. Topics include viral TikTok trend about men's thoughts on the Roman Empire, toxic social media content, boys' emotional suppression, parenting challenges in the age of social media, and the importance of positive role models for young boys online.
Parents need to help young men navigate the harmful influences of rigid masculinity and misogynistic content on social media by reinforcing positive values and providing open conversations about emotions and relationships.
Finding positive role models, promoting creativity through craftivism, and exploring the historical significance of women's handcrafts can counterbalance negative influences and guide young men towards healthier expressions of masculinity.
Deep dives
Men's Obsession with the Roman Empire on TikTok
A viral trend on TikTok revealed that many men constantly think about the Roman Empire. Videos recorded interactions where women asked their partners about their thoughts on the Roman Empire, with men responding seriously and passionately. The hashtag Roman Empire accumulated nearly a billion views, sparking discussions about masculinity and cultural influences. The trend also uncovered concerns about rigid masculinity and the extreme and misogynistic content young men encounter on social media. Parents are increasingly urged to help young men navigate these harmful influences and provide positive role models.
Challenges of Parenting in the Digital Age
The rise of social media has made media management a critical part of parenting. As children's online activities merge with their everyday lives, parents must navigate the negative and extreme content that young men encounter. Issues include the promotion of rigid masculinity, exposure to misogynistic content, and the influence of individuals like Andrew Tate who spread harmful ideas about masculinity. Parents need to counterbalance these influences by reinforcing positive values and open conversations about emotions and relationships. Educating children about the manipulative nature of online content is crucial to their well-being.
Discovering Positive Role Models and Craftivism
While negative influences abound online, it is possible to find positive role models for young men and challenge rigid masculinity. TED Talks like Justin Baldoni's address positive aspects of masculinity. Craftivism, or craft-based activism, can also offer a way to counterbalance negative influences by promoting creativity and community engagement. Exploring the environmental impact of clothing and understanding historical and cultural connections to handcrafts can bring awareness to the value of traditional women's labor and its political and creative implications. By reinforcing positive values and focusing on compassion and connection, parents can guide young men towards healthier expressions of masculinity.
The Fascination with Laura Ingalls Wilder and Unraveling
A digression from the Roman Empire reveals the enduring fascination with Laura Ingalls Wilder and her connection to women's experiences. Unraveling, a book by Peggy Ornstein, explores the author's personal journey with crafts like shearing sheep and knitting, reflecting on the historical significance of women's handcrafts. Craft activities can embody both empowerment and political dissent. Laura Ingalls Wilder serves as a common bond among women, offering a nostalgic connection to a past that is simultaneously inspiring and complex. Ornstein's book delves into topics such as transitioning as a woman, the environmental impact of clothing, and the importance of reinforcing positive values.