
 But We Loved
 But We Loved The Gay Children’s Book that Inspired a Culture War
 Dec 4, 2024 
 Michael Willhoite, a cartoonist and author, discusses his groundbreaking children's book 'Daddy's Roommate,' which became the second most challenged book of the 1990s. He reflects on the unexpected culture war it ignited and how he never intended to be political. Michael shares his journey of identity and self-discovery as a gay man in a conservative environment, emphasizing the importance of diverse narratives in children's literature. The conversation delves into the impact of censorship and the ongoing fight for LGBTQ+ representation in stories for children. 
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 Intro 
 00:00 • 2min 
 Standing Strong: A Librarian's Courage and Personal Reflections 
 01:30 • 2min 
 Michael Wilhoyt: A Journey of Identity and Expression 
 03:14 • 13min 
 Literature and Identity: A Culture Clash 
 15:57 • 4min 
 Championing 'Daddy's Roommate' 
 20:25 • 6min 
 Controversy and Connection: The Impact of a Children's Book 
 26:32 • 6min 
 Evolving Narratives: LGBTQ+ Rights and Censorship 
 32:11 • 6min 
 Controversy in Children's Literature 
 38:02 • 4min 





