Men Are Always in Problem Solving Mood

i think it's not politically correct to say that men have innate traits and women have different, whatever. We're hardwired as much for selfishness and greed as we are also hard wired for altruism and sory. If you just sit at a cafe without a smart phone, so in full psychopath mode,  just listen to the conversations around you,. It can actually be very interesting in these different ways. So i'd say the thing is not to beat ourselves up too much. The thing is just to try to be aware. And mindfulness helps. But er, sometimes you kind of except, you know, except the hard wearing and sarat, ok, this is a hard