At one point, ann wajiski said she gets a call a day from an angry sperm donor who now has been found out. Neuseblambe: At the time my father was donating, it was mostly heterosexual couples y where the father was infertile. The spirm banks advised those families not to tell their children that they were donor conceived. It's still and it creates, as somebody who's on the different side of this, it creates a lot of questions.