Holding on to This Romantic Idea?

At a certain point in life, once we've gone through what would be a kind of grieving period for the fantasy that's been shattered, there is a moment where we may have to pause and ask ourselves. Is this serving me in some way? Is this allowing me to avoid something? And if it is, what am i avoiding? Because moving toward that thing that you're avoiding is the answer to moving on. Do not lie to yourself and say that doing that thing is scary because you lost something. That's never been easy. Always doing tha thing, going out there and creating new opportunity and meeting new people and risking yourself in new relationships has always been hard. There's no time